I’ve only been using my fingers and I’d like to try a vibrator – frankly, my arm and fingers get tired!I think I’d find it embarrassing going into a sex shop. Don’t be embarrassed about not knowing for so long how to achieve sexual pleasure.Do vibrators inhibit the sensation you want to feel or enhance it? I feel like I want to hop into bed sometimes in the middle of the day and do it. Our generation of men and women weren’t exposed in our sexually formative years to information about the clitoris – what it is, what it’s for (it’s the only organ in the body designed exclusively for sexual pleasure! As women, we certainly were not taught that masturbation is the best way to discover what stimulates us and brings us to orgasm.Despite our upbringing, many of us figured this out along the way by touching ourselves or having a partner touch us in just the right way – but there are many who don’t learn the delights of self-pleasuring until later in life. It’s the perfect solution for those of us who are unpartnered or in a non-sexual relationship like yours. You don’t indicate that any of these are true – and if they’re not, you don’t need to worry.I met him in a chat room for seniors (not a specific “sex” chat room).Our friendship developed until we became intimate online – by intimate I mean just words on our screens.He helped me feel sexy and more comfortable with my body.
The staff is trained to help you feel comfortable, answer your questions and suggest the right product for your needs.Lately I’ve been trying to stimulate myself to orgasm.I’m not sure if I’ve ever really had an orgasm and now I wonder if it may be too late. Then I got to know a man – online only – who became a close cyber friend. I didn’t miss it, because I didn’t know what sexual pleasure was.